Veteran Dancer, Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau more known as Kaffy, has revealed what led to the crash of her marriage to her younger husband and drummer boy, Papi J Ameh.
The 4-year-old mother of two had on January 2022 taken to Instagram to announce the dissolution of her union with Joseph Ameh, a music director and drummer.
In a recent interview with media personality, Chude Jideonwo, Kaffy said that her ex-husband slept with some of her close pals.
In her words:
“If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew…I was thinking at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking, no human being should be your source of happiness.
“When you see him, you will think he can’t even hurt a fly cos he is always calm, and he has now made me afraid of calm people cos hmm, inside he is. I held him in high regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked him, what do you have against me, that is making you sleep around and with my best friends.”
On how she was able to move on, Kaffy said, “I stopped sleeping with him because he was dishonest with me and it was when I stopped sleeping with him, that the greatest level of healing started”
That alone would not have push you out creating space for your so called Friends. Give him time to get mature.No man of his age will not look out
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